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Ever been trapped between two options? ❌ 😣 ❌

  • Writer: Stu
    Stu
  • Aug 17, 2025
  • 1 min read

It’s a common trap in high-stakes conversations: we think our only choices are "my way" or "their way".


But expert influencers and negotiators know there’s often a better path: the third way.


It’s not about splitting the difference. It’s about finding an option that can change the game entirely.


In my latest newsletter, I share:


⏵ A lesson from my father’s 50 years in commercial law


⏵ How to avoid the “Fool’s Choice”


⏵ A technique to find a more neutral stance


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